Do not ask for money before I've met you. It will end our conversation immediately.
After twenty years of only encountering women trying to con money out of me, I have stopped buying membership. IF you are really and truly interested in playing in real time where I can actually have my hands on you, Look for me. If you can't find me on the internet, you're not trying.
Why do I have to say this? I do not want a submissive who can't follow instructions even when provided in writing?
Seriously, don't ask me to buy you anything or send you money before I've met you. If I have to buy you, I don't want you.
Welcome, and thank you for stopping by. I am many things. Some of them include: good father, wonderful husband and partner, reasoned man, loving Dominant, exceptional Top and sadist. There are many words that are used to describe me. Some words are: intelligent, thoughtful, good teacher, kind, handsome, eccentric and wise. However, many more colourful and profane words are used to describe me as well. I may seem intimidating, but really I'm a nice guy, often going out of my way to help others. A fun personality test I took said I am a "White Knight". Sometimes that gets me in trouble and sometimes I meet wonderful people. I met MadamXanna fifteen years ago because I stopped, gave her directions and fixed her bicycle on the Cambie Street bridge. Xanna is my beautiful wife, mother of my and first collared. If you would like to know more about Xanna her profile is MadamXanna. All though Xanna is not on-line as often as myself. As you can imagine, having two Dominants in a relationship has its own challenges. I can be found most often in the Master/slave and sometimes in the West Coast room. If for any reason I don't respond to you in a chat room, please assume I am busy with real life.
The most important things I have learned are:
Keep your promises. Keeping a promise is infinitely easier than repairing a broken promise, and cleaning up the fall out.
If you fuck up, swallow your pride and come clean. Apologize quickly, completely, honestly, and sincerely. You will be respected more for it afterwards.
People will act on rumors even when their personal knowledge contradicts the rumor.
Style always wins over substance.
Broken sparrows leave once healed.
I dedicate the following two poems to my former bitch. I wrote "Creatures" to remember a scene I did with her at BIOLogical 2001. "Marble" came to me one evening while reminiscing about our scenes.
"Creatures"
Sculpted pearl, mesmerizing
trusting, vulnerable, exposed
powerful blue creatures dancing
destructive, elemental, controlled
created lines, cavort delicately
momentary life, burns intensely
passing instantly, warm kiss remains
passionate writhing answers
Living canvas, immolating
butterflies, dragonflies, hearts
come to life in dancing waves bright, resplendent,
essential images glowing, heated glory
soothing touch, extinguishes quickly
elemental creature, vanishes silently
cooling instantly, warm kiss remains
soft moan answers
compassionate hands, caressing
float, sooth, connect
discovering supple china
alive, vibrant, intense
nurturing presence, engulfs tenderly
heated mantle, exults vigilantly
lingering boundlessly, warm kiss remains
contented silence answers
"Marble"
Singular beauty,
noblest sculptor handcrafted,
living flawless marble.
"Emeralds" took me eleven years to write. It is what I saw in Xanna's eyes the moment after I kissed her the first time on our second date.
"Emeralds"
Emerald fire
Passionately burns
Delighted soul smiles.
A few sayings I have:
"Domination exists only with the express consent of the submissive. This may change without warning."
"The difference between great play, and assault, is what she said happened."
"The collar and leash controls the movement of two individuals."
If you really need to watch me play, get "BDSM Alternative loving."
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My Ideal Person:
doesn't exist
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