I am an intelligent Dominant SWM who is a non-smoker, D/D free and possess a great sense of humor.
I have a wide range of interests including art, music, film (as opposed to mindless blockbuster movies) and stimulating conversation. I enjoy dining out, eating healthy, red wine, sports and laughter.
I'm extremely open-minded, very real, not a fake or flake and I'm always respectful of boundries. I am not into the Gorean aspect of D/s and am as far away from 'Lord Dragonbreath' as you can get.
I know and understand that any D/s relationship is built on mutual trust and honesty, whether it is a long term committed relationship or just casual play.
I love the 'connection' that happens between a Dominant and a submissive more than any mere 'act'. I believe that the mental aspect is ultimately the most satisfying part of what this is all about.
Sexually, there is little I have not tried and probably less than I would, with the exception of male/male contact. (I'm not homophobic, but that's just not something I am even remotely interested in).
Other than that...it's pretty much fair game depending on what my partner feels comfortable with. If my partner is less open-minded then that's ok too. I really have no 'must do or I won't enjoy myself' kinks, although I *love* anal play and do have a bit of a sadistic streak.
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My Ideal Person:
You should be in fairly decent shape or at least HWP, a non-smoker, witty, intelligent and have a good idea of who you really are and what you want out of life.
I am looking for someone who takes care of her body, mind and life. I want a partner, not a robot and I certainly can't (nor do I want to) 'fix everything' for you.
I hope to find someone who can be comfortable in the time we spent outside of the bedroom or D/s.
I am open to playing with people who have little experience as well as those who have lots.
I am also open to meeting couples where the male is into sharing his partner with no direct m/m contact or better yet...being cuckolded.
I'd love to hear from you.
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